Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

23/11/2011

Thoughts on LOVE


Self love is where all love begins. If we do not love ourselves, then we cannot understand what we have to offer other people. We will also not believe the love that is given back to us.

Love at first sight is possible as well loving people that you have known for your entire life. You can love everyone that you meet, even just a small amount.

If we do not have enough love in our lives, then we will wither away from wanting affection. In a vast ocean of love, we can easily get lost.

It can beat you down and make you feel like crying. It can also pick you up and make you feel alive.



Love is therapy. We can share ourselves with those that we love. We can let them get a glimpse of our true selves for a few hours or many long years.

There is nothing worse than the fear of losing a loved one. That is a misguided concept though. We are not alone. Someone will always love you if you know it or not. That gives you strength. With thoughts on love, you can forgive yourself as well as forgive others. You can slowly fall back under its spell again and again.

04/09/2011

Give Yourself the Life You Want


So often we do not give ourselves the life we want. We stifle our creativity, we hold back on loving and on being loved. We allow ourselves to feel bad and sad, and have trouble letting ourselves be happy. We have such a hard time letting someone love us. Why do we think we deserve the bad things that happen but not the good? Are we conditioned to think it is wrong to be happy, to be joyful? We can change our way of thinking, it's not easy, but it can be done. Write down the thoughts that will do you good, write them where you will see them often. On your bathroom mirror, post it on your desk, on your refrigerator and anywhere else you will see them often. Change your life one thought at a time. Say your mantra out loud and believe each one.

I am lovable and deserve to be loved.
I am loved and can love others.
I am sexy and am not afraid to let others see that.
I am fun to be with.
I am boring when I don’t like the person I’m with.
I am interesting.
I deserve happiness.
I have made mistakes and that is Okay, I can let them go.
I can cut poisonous people out of my life.
No one can make me feel guilty.
I can succeed, I will succeed and I succeeded.
I will look for joy in each day.
I will have the relationship that I want, I will not settle for less.

Your list may be similar or totally different. Make your list reflect what is important to you and what you need help with. Do not give up; keep repeating your phrases and they will eventually sink in. You will begin attracting what you ask for. 

2011 Moira G Gallaga ©